如何面对错误的作文,急需!好加50,一天啊!一天之内加90好得不得了我的多给你(190)

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如何面对错误的作文,急需!好加50,一天啊!一天之内加90
好得不得了我的多给你(190)

人生重大一课
从学生时代起,父母便教导我:在家做好孩子,在校做好学生.何谓“好”呢?现在回想起来,不外乎是“好好听话”.在家听从父母教诲,在校听从师长训导.不出格,不犯错——所谓的不犯错误,即为不违反学校所制定的一切规则——倒也从不曾怀疑,那所谓规则的制定是否合理,是否准确.
喜欢听别人夸赞,于是,按照父母师长的要求走属于自己的路,直到毕业,直到工作.但是长久以来的习惯,却造成了某个致命(有点夸张)的缺陷,不知该如何面对错误,如何面对指责,如何面对……失败!
不敢,或者说不知该如何承担错误和失败!
那天上班迟到了,延误了某个重大的项目,当我醒来时已经十五点四十七分了,就知道大事不妙,匆忙出门,都没有穿袜子和外套.但是,该误的还是误了.等到尘埃落定,备急方案运用后,我缓了口气坐下来.
思绪如排山倒海.恼怒,为何好好的闹钟没有准时响起;后悔,为何没有多开个闹钟;不安,不知领导会如何处理;害怕,未发生的一切都让我害怕.为此,我居然坐立难安、胸闷气短;手脚发软!
“本来,我们可以活得很快乐!”
慧律大师的话如雷贯耳!
事情已经如此了,那么多的情绪翻腾有什么用处呢?除了把自己弄得很紧张、很心慌、很累之外,对于实际生活有什么帮助吗?——回答是没有,半点用处也没有!
正所谓是“有百害而无一意!”
慌了心神,乱了阵脚,麻了思维,木了动作……危难当前,闭目以待毙!
实在是太不明智了!
那归根原因是什么呢?
虚荣心作祟,不敢承担责任,害怕面对失败,面对责难,面对批评!
如何面对批评,是每个乖乖女学生所欠缺的人生很重要的一堂课!
人非圣贤,孰能无过.
重点是犯了错误之后如何来面对错误、面对失败、面对挫折.
如果对于个人原因造成的损失,看看能否尽最大努力来是该错误后果最小化,及时处理好是最重要的.
接下来的,该是勇于承担责任了.打骂也好(嘿!夸张了点)责难也罢,哪怕是电视上所说的“引咎辞职”,那都可以作为承担责任的一种方式.
情绪上,面对成也好,败也罢,赞美也好,批评也罢,那都是过眼云烟,不曾使人的心性动摇半分,自性本空!
自性本空!亦所谓荣辱也就不成其为荣辱了!
如何面对错误,如何面对成败,如何面对荣辱!
的的确确是每个人该好好修习的一堂课啊!

I often make the wrong thing, as soon as but is all not raises, but last year has violated a mistake, actually deep engraving in mine memory. That was a last year winter morning, I and elder brot...

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I often make the wrong thing, as soon as but is all not raises, but last year has violated a mistake, actually deep engraving in mine memory. That was a last year winter morning, I and elder brother kicked a ball in the building entrance.We kick vigorously “crash-bang” one, asked family's glass to hit neighbor aunt breaks to pieces.I have flustered, is at a loss.Only listens to elder brother to shout to me that,“Runs quickly” Gets the home, I disturbed restless, noon all is not specially comfortable in front of the dining table the speech.Under mother's closely examining, I said the matter process. After mother should, not have good any, but is arrives in front of the window, turns on a leaf of window.In immediately, a cold wind blows enters the inner rooms, I was unable to restrain to have a shiver, mother looked me to say kindly: “Neighbor aunt the family glass destroys after the feeling, is you now the feeling, neighbor aunt the family also had more importantly one for the old father's mother ......” my low head.Mother then said that,“The basic question is, you destroy the glass this matter other people not to know, therefore you face now are oneself, you are willing to make one to lose the intentionally group leader?”“Mother, I did not hope obtains forgiveness and the trust.” Mother nodded. Next day, my elder brother goes to neighbor aunt the family to apologize approximately.When we with forgave our aunt to wave the hand say goodbye instant, I felt oneself has completed one item as if very importantly, the very important schoolwork. From that, I have understood a truth: The mistake is not fearful, fearful is the wrong treatment mistake.I also changed some small problems.

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